Winners and Losers

I have never known what separates the a winner from a loser . Some say its all in the mind but it doesn't look that way on the scoreboard. Some say you are only a loser if you choose to be ,and that is a lie. I think sometimes a loser is just the person that it is easy to overlook and say it won't matter he is not important any way. The loser may just think too far ahead or too much. Maybe dome people get their worth buy forcing others to be losers.I just know I can lose with the best/worst of them ,no success, no hope it seems.