Winners and Losers

I have never known what separates the a winner from a loser . Some say its all in the mind but it doesn't look that way on the scoreboard. Some say you are only a loser if you choose to be ,and that is a lie. I think sometimes a loser is just the person that it is easy to overlook and say it won't matter he is not important any way. The loser may just think too far ahead or too much. Maybe dome people get their worth buy forcing others to be losers.I just know I can lose with the best/worst of them ,no success, no hope it seems.

139

I just got back from the 139th fatality in my carreer . Its 1:30 in the morning and I may have problems sleeping tonight. This was a self inflicted gun shot wound apparently. These kind of tragedeys allways make you ask why? is there anything anyone could have done? what drives aperson to this point of desparation? What about the family left behind?Will they survive are will this trigger other tragedies?

The surving spouse will not sleep at all tonight .We will probably be called to the house to try to help them. What can we do to help some one whose spouse is dead by thier own hand. I will tell the truth as I always have tried to do;"I can't offer you any help ,no one can , the only way you will ever find peace about this is through Jesus"