The great thing about having your own blog is you get to say what you want. There will be consequences of course, but that is an universal truth in life.
Every since I was a little kid I have wanted to work in public service and over the years I have been blessed to be able to do so both as a volunteer and as a paid person. Along the way I've learned a few lessons some pleasant and some that hurt to learn.
I have learned that common courtesy is returned most of the time.
I have learned to block out distractions and do my job even if the person I was dealing with was unpleasant.
I have learned that the person who makes a mistake usually feels worse than anyone about it , I don't need to beat them up over it.
I have learned we all make mistakes,we need to admit them and move on.
I have learned that sometimes trying to help someone only makes them mad.
I have learned that I need to keep my mouth shut more.
I have learned that your skills are not as important as the people you know.
I have learned that most people do not appreciate what you do.
I have learned that most people can not do the jobs we do in public service.
I have learned that just because they can't do your job doesn't stop people from criticizing you.
I have learned that most policies and procedures are made by full time paid people who can go to meetings in the middle of the week. This leaves the volunteer and more rural areas with out any representation and the policies and procedures won't work in more rural areas.
I have learned that the higher up you go in organization the less street experience and common sense is found.
I have learned that turf wars in public service are harmful to the public we are supposed to serve.